It can be surprising what we don’t know about our sexual selves. To know and ask for what we want, what we don’t want, to know what we do or don’t like, to find our desire and arousal patterns, orgasmic pathways and how eros as life-force flows and serves us.
It wasn’t till I started to explore being held in loving presence with a some beautiful sexual healers that I was able to release trauma, fear and shame and start to experience my full potential – reclaiming my sexuality for my pleasure, loving my yoni, and allowing myself to express and love myself fully.
When we feel safe and enjoy our bodies we can let go of our conditioning about appropriate feminine expression and self criticism. You will be encouraged to receive fully the transmission of your beauty and power, and expand your ability to feel and express.
Yoni is a Sanskrit word that means divine or sacred passage/temple and refers to the entire female genitalia. To connect with your beautiful and sacred sexuality can be so healing and empowering.
We start with a talk through your intention for coming, getting to know each other a little and allowing yourself to relax and open, sharing your story so I can understand where you have come from, what you are hoping for, and you can know deeply that all of you is welcome, cherished and listened to.
There is no goal, no expectation. The session will depend on where you are at and what you want. It may be important to think about how you know your yes and no, understand your anatomy, engage with your pleasure and desire, clarify your boundaries. There will be beautiful relaxing full body massage and only then we explore the outer genitals if it feels right and perhaps inside to connect you to the wisdom held in your vagina and womb.
To encourage feeling and release I will map out points of numbness, pain or disconnection. We bring awareness and subtle release work and I am there in loving presence to create safety. In this way you may find new aliveness and sensation and connection and long held patterns, beliefs and trauma may subtly shift.
Sexuality Coaching, and Embodied Coaching where you learn to love being in your body, as you, in this life including tools for Emotional Release and giving voice to our hearts, minds, bodies and wombs.
Packages available: Understanding females sexuality and pleasure involves understanding ourselves holistically, emotionally and being able to release past events, blocked emotions and allow our innate ability to feel full body orgasmic energy flow through. A series of session with help with many issues, including: lack of arousal, developing your orgasmic potential, how to increase pleasure and experience more eros during sexual encounters, finding your desires and boundaries, healing past trauma.
3.5 hour encounter and 90 minutes of coaching first (either same day or seperate) then a 2 hr touch session @ $500.
This is a practice in full somatic consent based on the Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin.
“Pleasure is a gateway to emotional and spiritual fluency. It makes us aware of things we were not aware of before, alters our blood chemistry, enhances brain function and opens new possibilities in all areas of life. The gift of loving touch heals body, heart and soul by bringing us a taste of love, both divine and personal.
In order to dive into pleasure, we need the safety of choice and clarity. Choice and clarity must be valued in every interaction – what is being offered and received, by whom, and what is not.” Betty Martin
Each of us has unique desires and imprints that lead us to desire unique experiences. This is for you if you have ever found that you don’t know how to ask for what you want, or if you don’t know what you want, don’t know how to renegotiate after touch starts and do want to direct someone to create pleasure sensations all over your body for your pleasure only, exactly as you wish, with no pressure or expectation.
You will be invited to go deep into your embodied experience and ask for the exact touch in the exact place that you want it. If it is within the boundaries of the practitioner you will receive it.
The session starts by introducing the Wheel of Consent concepts and talking about how that has been in your life. Then for a period time you will ask for the touch you want from a place of curiosity, receive it for a short time, integrate for a time, and ask again. In this way you can repattern your awareness of what it is like to ask for exactly what you feel you want and get it. You are encouraged to ask directly and renegotiate it it’s not exactly perfect for you.
This will be followed in two parts, flowing ask and receive and free flowing consensual touch.
You can be as clothed, as naked, as bold, as timid, as curious as you like in an extremely safe setting with clear boundaries. This can be life changing.
